A Better Share

A Better Share

Dr. Morgan Cutlip

You want a partner, not a helper.

You want a teammate not someone you have to coach.

Unlike other advice that simply tells one partner to “step it up,” A Better Share dives deeper into:

what the mental load actually is any why it’s so draining
how it got so heavy so quickly and the cost of it on your relationship
why it doesn’t need to be 50/50 but it must feel fair and

How couples can work together to fix it. Dr. Morgan Cutlip blends research, relatable stories, and actionable strategies to help couples move from frustration to connection without all the fight.

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