Rebuilding Trust Roadmap Course

In the 10 unhappy years, our marriage was a mess. You wouldn’t have thought it looking in from the outside because we were doing everything “right.” We went on date nights, we read the right books, knew each other’s love languages, and even went on vacations with just the two of us. Even with all that intentionality, a separateness crept into our relationship which led to pornography, infidelity, declarations of divorce, a four-month separation, and one very dark year. During this broken time, we would connect on occasion because Mark determined that he wanted to make the divorce as easy as possible for the people we both loved. God had other plans for us, and thankfully our hearts were open to that. Even with the little time we were spending together, God showed up and used those moments to move our relationship from hurting to hopeful in only the way He can. Healing took time and work – both personal work and couple work­ – but it was worth every bit of effort. Since then, we’ve moved from Mark and Jill 1.0 to Mark and Jill 2.0. Our relationship is healed, our hearts are connected, our family is intact and now we have the marriage we always longed to have. Now we’re also committed to offering hope and help to other couples. Our commitment to helping others forced us to look back on our path and see where we got off track, how trust was broken, the steps we took to recover trust and create a marriage that is even better than we imagined it could be.